Sunday, June 8, 2014

The Joy of Secondhand Denim; or Why I Don't Buy New Clothes

The Joy

     Recently I have been seeing more in the media about the toxic chemicals and irresponsible manufacturing processes  in textile plants around the world that are causing major water pollution and hazardous or even toxic working conditions. National Geographic did a piece on this fairly recently. There is so, so much information out there that I would have to do a ton of research to give a decent analysis, and that's beyond the scope of this post. Some of the main points are so clear, though, that for the purposes of my blog I will simply summarize: The farming and industrial processes used in making new clothes cause a lot of pollution. The processes used to dye, stone wash, and bleach tons and tons of denim clothing articles of all kinds cause particularly significant problems for workers and local water sources.

Photo National Geographic

     The insatiable hunger for new fashions is everywhere. In the west, it is part of a constant cycle of discarding last season's trends and buying up the of-the-moment looks. This means that the 'outdated' items are trashed (I observe that much of the stuff that is sold is poor quality, intended to last one season and be trashed) or given away. I have read about the global trade in used clothing, cast-off by the US in particular. There was this piece last year. It has a profound effect on the economies of the world, and frankly, makes me ashamed. This all reminds me of a thoughtful blog post I read last year called Everything You Didn't Want to Know About How Jeans are Made. At the time, it gave me new determination to continue my practice of not buying new clothes.

     Because this sort of information can be hard to respond to! It's terrible, and we may feel guilty, but what can we do about it? We can't choose not to wear clothes, or to not clothe our families. I think when people see an overwhelming problem and can't see how they can help, they just downplay and/or ignore it. I bet there is a psychological term for that. (There is. See 'Denial'). But let's try to find some responsible and feasible reactions that regular people can do! I have a few things in mind.

     First, I found this article with some encouraging new science about how some of the pollution from indigo dyes can possibly be dealt with. Science! Yes, there is so much that we could do as humans to protect and care for our world, and to protect and care for our brothers and sisters we share it with. The modern Catholic Church is very clear in its support of ethical science as a way in which humanity can carry out our jobs to steward the earth and to love the poor. (For example, #2293 in The Catechism of the Catholic Church). So, somebody get going on wastewater treatment and non-toxic manufacturing processes! Homeschool research opportunity! Trinity School Project Week topic!!

     Second could be a response like the one here in this upworthy vid about toxic waste from fashion production that I saw on facebook yesterday. They suggest to pressure big companies and to look for labels on new clothing items that indicate certain standards of manufacturing. There is info in the news about more sustainable cotton production, and about making high quality products, instead of fashion that is designed to be trashed, because 'durability is the first tenet of sustainability' That may be something some of us have resources to do, and some of us may end up having a passion to take leadership in this way.

     Third, is my response. I am already a thrift shopper. I love to go out alone, to dig in and search, discovering things that I am looking for, or discovering unexpected treasures. I also love getting the most I can on our very limited budget. I admit to a glow of pride when I tell my husband what I was able to get for our family, and how I used my own cleverness with coupons and sales at my favorite Goodwill to pay the least possible. But, this question of pollution puts shopping for secondhand clothing in a different light. We may not be able to change what manufacturers do, or to change what consumers want, and what our insatiable culture keeps buying and selling. But I can change what I buy! If I choose to buy second hand clothes whenever I can, items that have already been manufactured and sold once, then I am not adding to the pollution burden. In fact, I am decreasing the amount of discarded clothing produced. So, something to think about.
Peace, Love and Thrifted Jeans

     In that blog post I referred to above, Holly on My Years of Fabulous! ended by making this pledge:
“To Mother Earth, I promise that I will never, ever buy a new pair of jeans again — no matter how flattering they are, no matter how buttery soft and yummy they feel, no matter how much they are on sale and now matter how small they make my butt look.  In exchange, I would like you to promise to never rain on one of my children’s birthday parties again.  Twenty sugared up children hitting a piƱata inside our small house gave me nerve damage.  Thanks, Holly.”

So, give it some thought. See if you can make a conscious decision to at least look hard at second hand options first, before buying something new. Or, make a more radical committment like Holly. And throw your lot in with me, and meet me at the Salvation Army thrift store!
See how happy we are, being at peace with the Earth ;)

Thursday, June 5, 2014

{p,h,f,r} Good light, goofy kid, lots of happy

Linking up with LMLD for {p,h,f,r}: 
round button chicken

{pretty}

Leia. And peonys. I was thinking I would be strong and resist the easy picture of flowers for {pretty}, but this is the prettiest thing on my ipad by far! (Got me, Auntie Leila!)


Pretty and happy: this headband I altered.  I am one who likes to save pretty things and hates to waste stuff I can make use of (and I often do find uses. I'm not just a hoarder!). Lately I have started watching shabby chic craft tutorials on youtube in the evening, because I am too tired to read. I love the inspiration to use my thriftyness and creativity for something productive. Here is my first headband. I am decently pleased. I want to make some little elastic ones for gifts for new babies. I made the flower barrette Leia is wearing, too!

{happy}
Lots of happy.
For one thing, I am happy we have had such sunny days, and that I am able to get some good photos like the one above. At this point, I do not have a good camera, or use a photo editing program of any kind. What you see is what I shot with my ipad. So, I'm thankful for good light and what nice photos it takes.

Here I am with my little Bilbo the day Hermione was taking some photos of us for my big strategic fashion for breastfeeding blog post. It took me a lot of time, but It's done and has been well received. So I'm happy!

This baby is happy! The photographer started playing peek-a-boo with the ipad. (Forgive the baby food under his nose. I promise that's what it is.)

Here's a twelve year old girl who just got her new sweatshirt! Hermione has been homeschooled all the way through sixth grade, and is heading to Trinity School at Greenlawn for 7th-12th. She is ready, academically and in every other way, and is so excited about this fall! I am happy that this transition is going to be pretty natural, and that she is ready. And I have successfully home educated one kid for K-6th!


I bought this couch on Memorial Day, unexpectedly, for $15. (As I told my husband, I do not make impulse purchases; but I sometimes make opportunistic purchases. That's what thrifting is!) This thing is a fabulous green, weighs a ton because it is super good quality, and is one hundred inches long. 100 in! Look, six children on there, and room for about three more! It is replacing a free one given by friends, that was looking pretty bad after our use and was not worth recovering. Happy, happy.



{funny}

This girl. "Mom! Someone painted on my forehead". Hmm, I wonder who...


{real}
I laid baby down on a hot afternoon, and he fell asleep. This cherub is not posed. 100% real.

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Friday, May 30, 2014

SQT: Seven Amusing and Relevant Mom T Shirts


I haven't blogged in a while. Even though the extracurricular activities of the school year have been winding down, and I have ended our homeschooling for the semester, there has been a lot going on. This week I have a special concern, and a prayer request for anyone reading this: would you pray for Lily, my niece, to be filled with healing, health and peace, and for her body's immune system to return to normal? Thanks.
My Hermione, being the cute and sassy pre-teen that she is, likes to wear cute and smart t shirts. We were joking together about her shirt, and we ended up googling t shirts for me! It was really fun. Here are my seven favorites. (I am not being paid to promote any of these, but if you want to buy me one, that would be cool. Ladies size medium).
Here is a fun Supermom t shirt. This is what my daughter and I were initially looking for.
It can be found online thru google pretty easily. Unfortunately, some of these t shirt sites have some crummy content as well as fun so I'm not linking.
This one is cool too, like the nerdy chic math shirts that Hermione and I also like.
I LOVE this motherhood one. Yep.
Love this pic. And this particular shirt does not include "see also 'masochist'". So, that's a good reason to buy this one here: http://www.etsy.com/listing/159729977/funny-t-shirt-mom-shirt-with-sayings-mom
As we were looking, I got a kick out of this one. Anyone who has ever been in public with a child will get it.
(Oooh! I just got a good idea for pregnant women! You could make a shirt with your due date on it; so people will stop asking! I wonder if someone already makes one...)*
Can be found at http://babybrewing.com/. They have some other cute ones there. Like "Mommy Needs a Beer" or "Mommy Needs a Cocktail". (Please do not buy the knock-off of this cute baby shirt from Target!)
Maybe you've seen these superpower shirts. They make them for everything! I looked it up to show my daughter the "I Make Milk" one.
I think this design is particularly cool. I would def wear it.
Do they make a Homeschooling superpower one? Why, yes they do:
How cool is this?! Not sure if I would wear it out around people I don't know. Maybe I would... Maybe just at home when I want to feel like a superhero.

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Last but best: Breastfeeding themed T's for mom and baby!


I found these adorable images, and I don't know whose they are. But, kudos to these and all nursing moms! This principle of s&d will get you far. (looks like you can buy shirts like them here: http://www.cafepress.com/clstudio.26320288)

BONUS!
This isn't one I would personally wear, because no one in my family needs to be told to ask me about everything all the time. They do it already! But, amusing; and very relevant.

*Lo and behold: http://www.zazzle.com/due+date+tshirts Too bad I wasn't the first one to have the idea.

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Friday, May 9, 2014

Socks, Nursing Attire, Bloggy Authenticity and Catholic Diversity (and more Socks!)


7QT is awesome, because I have ideas for blog posts that will probably never be adequately developed to be posts, but they fit in here great! One idea I had was to talk about socks. No, really. It is a daily battle to fight against them taking over my house. So with each Quick Take today I will share a pic of socks in a different part of my house. (And not even bedrooms, because that's a given, right?)
Ah ha! socks in the schoolroom

I really want to read Something Other Than God, (which I think is an awesome title, by the way) and I'm going to ask my library to buy copies. I need to make a list, actually, because it seems that most of my fave bloggers are publishing books.  In case anyone is reading this post (hi Mom!) you can buy the book at lots of booksellers, including Amazon. Raised by an intelligent man with a great sense of wonder and love for science, Jen grew up an atheist. She is a really enjoyable writer, and a super intelligent, articulate and funny convert to Catholicism. I learned about her when another blogger mentioned her reality show. I cant wait to dig into the book!
Socks in the kitchen??
I was writing a Take on breastfeeding, but I think it turned into a post. Yay! (For this take, suffice it to say that low-slung jeans are not a helpful style for people who are trying to discreetly lift the hem of their top. But never fear!) I'll finish that and post it on its own soon. (I did it! Read it here.) Here, have some more socks.
No, not the rocks. Over there; see that little baby sock? 

Kendra was talking in her Quick Takes about bloggy friendships and being authentic in our blogs.  She has a point. When we are meeting people we want to be open to developing relationships with, friendship will not get anywhere if we are holding back. One reason I started this blog was a desire to be included in the awesome sisterhood of bloggers that I love and admire! But I am with Jessica Housewifespice when it comes to the kids' names. I want to share my life, but not share too much about my children that will become attached to their names on the interwebs forever! Or, as Jessica says 'I use fake names for my kids so that if someone googles my son's name the story about how the inside of his cast smelled doesn't pop up'. Yeah.
Another baby sock! Where's its partner?


I let my three oldest kids (ages 12, 11 and 8), go exploring on their own all the way up the road to the ravine and pond past the cemetery! We just usually all take walks together. And, frankly, I am not immune to my generation's fearfulness about our kids' safety. Deep down, I value freedom, and I loved to explore as a kid. I love the books in which kids have adventures without the help or interference of grownups. And I was really impressed by this article in The Atlantic called The Overprotected Kid, (Pretty long, but very good). But it was still kind of hard to just say "have fun! Come back for lunch!" and let them go that far. They had a great time. Got drenched by rain and all muddy and everything! Successful adventure, high fives all round. I meant to take a photo of them when they got home, cuz I knew they would be a sight, but I forgot. They were eager for warm showers, and all I got is this:
Yep. Shoes and socks.

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Allergies.
 Oops, I almost forgot to flesh this one out. But who wants to hear it? I'll just give you a fun song: 
And a sock...
I see it! There's the match!
Here's a link to a great little piece called Here Comes Everybody. When it came out, I could really identify with the first paragraph:
"We envy our Evangelical friends for the vibrancy of faith in their communities. (Causing our Evangelical friends to wonder whether we're been hitting the communion wine too hard.) We envy our friends in the historically black churches for their great preaching and singing... We envy our Eastern Orthodox friends for having a beautiful liturgy. We envy our Orthodox Jewish friends for understanding the value of tradition....' Not that I exactly envy; but I see things going right in certain respects in many different faith communities. I am part of an ecumenical community because I value what I have in common in important areas with all other Christians. But I do love the Catholic Church, and thank God for the stability of the teachings and tradition that have stood the test of time, even when we humans in space and time have messed up (sometimes very badly). And this: "Sometimes, one notices the little things that make it great to be Catholic. Like diversity". I personally experienced the joy of sharing our daughter's First Holy Communion day with many diverse families in our parish. Nothing brings out people's cultural flavors like the chance to dress up for a sacrament and a celebration! It was a joy. I particularly treasure the sweet interactions between my baby boy and the big strong Hispanic man, someone's godfather, in the pew behind us.

Have a great weekend! Excuse me while I do some delegating, and keep these socks at bay for another day.

Yes, front stairs and back stairs. Thank goodness sandal weather's around the corner!

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